The Rest Of Us: Stop being the Bully!

Hello all!

Something occurred to today that made me feel a huge need to write this. And as you can read from the title, you should know what this post is about.

Bullying is a very dangerous thing. Something that may lead to hurting someone's feeling or even worse. We all know that right? But sometimes we do things that we may not realize is a form of bullying. You don't have to be physically hurting someone to be considered picking on them. Some of you may not realize but gossiping or trying to damage someone's reputation is bullying too. I mean like if you are talking bad about someone behind their back? Yeah that's bullying.

Like I said in my previous post, you are perfect just the way you are, you don't have to bring someone down just to make yourself better. Such an act is just so pathetic. Only the most insecure people have to make others look bad just so they can feel better about themselves. What is the point of slamming someone? You hurt feelings and I doubt you'd portray yourself in a very nice way doing so. If people laugh at your crude comments with you, how do you know they don't laugh at the same comments ABOUT you. I just really don't think it is very nice. Especially if you have to make stuff up just to bring that person down.

The shallowest kinds of bullies are the kind that needs to slam someone with:

1. Untrue facts

2. Physical appearance

Okay I admit I do sometimes judge some people by their outward appearance and I do agree that its mean cause we cant help how we look. But yeah it is shallow and i agree it's because we have nothing else to diss the person about. Most of the time we only criticize people based on looks when we really have nothing else to say and we have to resort to bitching about how they look. Or when some people can't find anything better to say about the person or they do not really know him or her too well they start making up nonsensical rumors about them. You my dear friend, I like to call a rumormonger or "i-have-to-resort-to-making-shit-up-cause-i'm-jealous-of-you".

You can feel inadequate and that's normal, but please don't resort to making someone feel bad in order to feel good. It's just not right. Plus my friend Ashraf said if you do so you are absorbing their bad karma huehuehue.

Ugh too tired to even continue about this. I'm so sick and tired of people messing with my friends. I mean do it to me? Fine. But don't you dare mess with those around me.

Just because you might be blessed with a certain trait does not give you the right to look down on someone who is not. Don't make fun of people who are different, cause they are the unique ones. You? You might just be another basic bitch. oops i said it. :P

Okay, the whole point isn't about me being angry but i just wish this bullying would stop. So many kids have suffered through bullying and i'm sure that many of you reading this right now empathize with this right? We've all been the victim at one point or another and we know how it feels to have a bunch of people pointing, staring and laughing. We know that feeling of loneliness when that happens, the anger and depression. Feeling so helpless. So shouldn't we be the last people to want to even inflict this sort of pain on someone else?

ON A SIDE NOTE:

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